Rules to loving you

Good Morning,

Now loving you doesn't come over night lol I really wish it were that easy. There are a couple of rules to this thing. Well really there's only one, but it has a couple of parts to it. So here we go:

The one and only rule to loving you for who God made you is: RESPECT!!!!!

1. Respect yourself. If you can't respect yourself and love yourself how do you expect others to do the same. Respect is more than just talk, it's an action. Walking around putting yourself down all the time, talking about how much you hate your hair, body, nose, etc. doesn't equate to respect. This just enhances the negative feelings you have for yourself which keeps you in a menagerie of self hate. You have to find the positives about yourself. God made you the way you are for a reason, no one else is like you and that's what makes you perfect. Think about it, if everyone talked, looked, and acted the same there would be no diversity, no inspiration, no joy, no happiness. What makes you unique is what makes God happy and hating your unique qualities suppresses the beauty that God has given you. 

2. Respect others. This can only come when you respect yourself. If you can't accept yourself for who you are you can't accept others for who they are.

3. Respect God. He's your creator and all things he created are good. Respect your creator for who He is and what He has done.

So remember, loving yourself doesn't happen over night but it does happen when you learn to respect yourself. When you start loving and respecting yourself, you become a force to be reckoned with. You will find your relationships become a lot better as well.

Love you like I love me

Janae Strickland

If you want to contact me please email at: jstrickland82@gmail.com